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Friends for a reason, a season or a lifetime
Navigating relationships Renata Schoeman 29/05/2025 Navigating relationships Renata Schoeman 29/05/2025

Friends for a reason, a season or a lifetime

I often reflect on the evolving nature of friendship: why some bonds endure, whilst others fade or only last a season. And within this, I remind myself that at every life stage it is possible to nurture meaningful connections that enrich our emotional lives.

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Are you tearing others down to feel a bit taller?
Navigating relationships Renata Schoeman 22/04/2025 Navigating relationships Renata Schoeman 22/04/2025

Are you tearing others down to feel a bit taller?

I recently posted a celebratory message on social media about my students – a heartfelt note, late at night, full of pride and joy. But instead of sharing in the sentiment, someone chose to point out a spelling mistake.

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The power of mental health goals
Intentional living: goals and growth Renata Schoeman 19/03/2025 Intentional living: goals and growth Renata Schoeman 19/03/2025

The power of mental health goals

The first quarter of the year is wrapping up, and those New Year’s resolutions you had set might be fading or maybe they never really took off. But here’s the thing: the issue might not be your goals themselves, but rather that you haven’t included specific goals for your mental health and well-being.

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Love and mental health: The heart-brain connection
Everyday mental health Emma King 12/02/2025 Everyday mental health Emma King 12/02/2025

Love and mental health: The heart-brain connection

Whether you embrace or loathe it, Valentine’s Day is hard to ignore. Radio advertisements remind you to order the chocolates, shop isles are drowning in red and pink and your social media feed is probably filled with special offers and date night ideas.

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Constantly feeling swamped at work?
Resilience and perseverance Emma King 31/05/2024 Resilience and perseverance Emma King 31/05/2024

Constantly feeling swamped at work?

Burnout is a state of emotional, mental, and often physical exhaustion brought on by prolonged or repeated stress. It’s a workplace phenomenon that cannot be confused by daily stressors of everyday personal life responsibilities.

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Part 3: Take action and stick to it!
Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 29/04/2024 Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 29/04/2024

Part 3: Take action and stick to it!

We’ve come to the final in the three-part series looking at becoming unstuck, goal-setting, and now stepping into action.

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Part 2: A goal without a plan is just a wish
Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 29/03/2024 Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 29/03/2024

Part 2: A goal without a plan is just a wish

If you find yourself a quarter into the year lacking motivation, willpower or drive to stick to achieving something new or starting or stopping a certain behaviour, then read further.

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Part 1: Become unstuck!
Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 29/01/2024 Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 29/01/2024

Part 1: Become unstuck!

There are many things in my life that I am indecisive about, those which I deliberately avoid, procrastinate on and dread facing. But they all have one thing in common: they create a sense of being in limbo and feelings of being ‘stuck’.


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Shortage of ADHD medication is a real concern
Everyday mental health Emma King 03/11/2023 Everyday mental health Emma King 03/11/2023

Shortage of ADHD medication is a real concern

With the worldwide shortage of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) medicines due to increased global demand and manufacturing problems, many patients and parents are feeling despondent in their unfruitful search for medication.

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Our stories become our truth
Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 05/10/2023 Intentional living: goals and growth Emma King 05/10/2023

Our stories become our truth

Recently, I had the privilege of attending a conference where I was deeply moved by the inspiring keynote speakers who shared their journeys of conquering adversity and achieving remarkable success.

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Creativity is not just child’s play
Everyday mental health Emma King 31/07/2023 Everyday mental health Emma King 31/07/2023

Creativity is not just child’s play

As a child, we were creative for most parts of the day shaping clay, drawing, building forts, engaging in imaginative role-play with toys, and galloping around the house on pretend horses.

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Laying down the boxing gloves
Navigating relationships Emma King 30/05/2023 Navigating relationships Emma King 30/05/2023

Laying down the boxing gloves

Conflict and disagreement are an inevitable part of any relationship. Two people with different backgrounds, personalities, perspectives, beliefs, experiences, and tastes can lead from minor everyday annoyances to serious relationship-crushing conflict.

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The past is the best teacher
Resilience and perseverance Emma King 28/04/2023 Resilience and perseverance Emma King 28/04/2023

The past is the best teacher

We all have a past. Regardless of our memories of growing up, family structure and home life, or the challenges, traumas, and choices along the way, they have all left a few marks.

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What does happiness look like?
Resilience and perseverance Emma King 31/03/2023 Resilience and perseverance Emma King 31/03/2023

What does happiness look like?

Each year when the Happiness Index Report is released we as South Africans realise just how much adversity we face on a daily basis. Price hikes, corruption, violence and abuse, failed state-owned enterprises, and poverty all add to our anxiety levels and overall outlook on life.

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Wine o’clock – the big exhale
Resilience and perseverance Emma King 28/02/2023 Resilience and perseverance Emma King 28/02/2023

Wine o’clock – the big exhale

Wine has become shorthand for relaxation. That well-deserved break after a long day of working and parenting, signaling the start of the last shift before bedtime.

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New year, same tired you
Navigating relationships Emma King 23/01/2023 Navigating relationships Emma King 23/01/2023

New year, same tired you

We have literally entered the year with a multitude of flat batteries: physically, emotionally, and to add to the discomfort, also Eskom-induced.

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Quietly quitting on your relationship
Navigating relationships Emma King 28/11/2022 Navigating relationships Emma King 28/11/2022

Quietly quitting on your relationship

The latest trend of quiet quitting – doing the bare minimum at work – sees people actively refraining from going the extra mile and disengaging from giving it their all.

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It’s OK not to feel OK
Resilience and perseverance Emma King 31/10/2022 Resilience and perseverance Emma King 31/10/2022

It’s OK not to feel OK

We’ve all noted the social media meme It’s OK not to be OK reminding us that bad times are inevitable and that feeling emotionally overwhelmed is normal at times.

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Loadshedding – is your frustration barometer at boiling point?
Emma King 26/09/2022 Emma King 26/09/2022

Loadshedding – is your frustration barometer at boiling point?

Frustration. It’s a complex cocktail of being annoyed, angry, disappointed, and powerless. It’s an emotional reaction to stress and in many cases rather short-lived.

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Are you guilt’s prime candidate?
Everyday mental health Emma King 22/08/2022 Everyday mental health Emma King 22/08/2022

Are you guilt’s prime candidate?

It’s true that society has created certain standards for mothers. It naturally doesn’t help that we as women have also set our own standards that are incredibly high and drive us in constant pursuit of being the “perfect mother and woman.”

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